Forum :: Lounge :: Recent "ex" is already with another guy?

Joshcool posted: (26th Feb 2013, 11:57 am)

In my opinion (which is what you're seeking, others opinions) you really need to just move on and if it appears challenging, find other ways to entertain yourself, i.e new hobbies, meet new people.

When someone is single, they are bound by no rules (relationship wise) so there is no betrayal they can commit. What she did whilst the two of you were together was wrong and unfaithful, but that's history now as you are no longer together. If you still like her, then just tell her, but I believe you'd be wasting your time on someone who is just going to pile more misery on to you and rub more salt into your already open wound that has had minimal salt already rubbed into. I suppose as you have a child together, there may be mis-direction as to how you feel, but just focus on the child and don't get your feelings crossed with those you have toward the mother, just do what she is doing and move on.This might be more difficult for you as she appeared to not care so much, but you're a human with a mind more powerful than most people give it credit for. Your mind can overcome these small difficulties. I consider relationships to be miniscule in the grand scale of things, it's a lot worse to have a family member die, friend involved in a serious accident, child becomes unwell and you panic about what the next step should be, you lose your job/and or driving license, you become homeless. Unless you have been married or together for around 10 years or more, then I consider it relaitvely easy to get over people compared to some of the things I listed above. There are on average, over 3 billion women on this planet, they're not verging on extinction, go out to a bar or something and try your luck with the local desperados. If one of the women you hit on appears like their posession of one brain cell could be a bit far-fetched, either move on to pastures new, sleep with them, but do NOT date them. Leave that for people whom you can hold interesting conversations with, someone who understands common sense and most important of all, someone who accepts you for who you are.

To sum all of that up for simplicity and directive purposes, forget about the ex, find some kind of new interest and see how that pans out, and if you're feeling lonely then go out in search of a new woman.

(Also don't listen to the simpletons who are satirical just for the sake of being satirical, I'm sure their life isn't as miraculous as they make out it to be with their derogatory remarks)

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“Everybody is a genius. But if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its
whole life believing that it is stupid.” - Albert Einstein

Owner of the original Culio PK - PK Worldz

Ramy you can do it. She's really durn stupid to choose pleasure over your love. Within the next 20 years, she's going to become so small and corrupted she'll be begging to get back with you. (will die in the hole she jumped into)

On the other hand, you will continue your life as the great guy you are and achieve success! You're really charismatic Ramy. Don't let the weaker pull you down. The door may seem closed and hard to open. But you can lift yourself up and float to the path of blue skies!

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I not hacker

“Everybody is a genius. But if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its
whole life believing that it is stupid.” - Albert Einstein : Really Great Quote Ramy!

Hacker_Alex posted: (27th Feb 2013, 02:14 am)

Ramy you can do it. She's really durn stupid to choose pleasure over your love. Within the next 20 years, she's going to become so small and corrupted she'll be begging to get back with you. (will die in the hole she jumped into)

On the other hand, you will continue your life as the great guy you are and achieve success! You're really charismatic Ramy. Don't let the weaker pull you down. The door may seem closed and hard to open. But you can lift yourself up and float to the path of blue skies!

thanks alex :p

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“Everybody is a genius. But if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its
whole life believing that it is stupid.” - Albert Einstein

Owner of the original Culio PK - PK Worldz

Hacker_Alex posted: (27th Feb 2013, 02:14 am)

Ramy you can do it. She's really durn stupid to choose pleasure over your love. Within the next 20 years, she's going to become so small and corrupted she'll be begging to get back with you. (will die in the hole she jumped into)

On the other hand, you will continue your life as the great guy you are and achieve success! You're really charismatic Ramy. Don't let the weaker pull you down. The door may seem closed and hard to open. But you can lift yourself up and float to the path of blue skies!

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hi guise