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Plasmastar posted: (20th Dec 2012, 03:38 am)

Tails posted: (20th Dec 2012, 03:32 am)

right..... cow udders by any chance? :P

Some times I wish I could just drink from the tap. :(

niggu i kno wut u mean. somtimez i be tryna tap dat azz too.

Ramy posted: (20th Dec 2012, 03:35 am)

Rawrkitty posted: (20th Dec 2012, 03:29 am)

Ramy posted: (20th Dec 2012, 03:19 am)

Every response you've gotten so far is a troll pretty much... Maybe I'll be able to give you some advice.

(note: all my assumptions are based on what you wrote and are only assumptions)

I'm not trying to offend you or anything, but from your description it seems that you have been putting no effort into keeping a relationship with your online boyfriend until after he broke up with you. I guess that goes with the saying "You don't know what you have 'till it's gone".

You can tell that he cares a lot about you by the way he tries so hard to make you happy while all you do is argue with him.

I've been in my fair-share of relationship problems with a girl who doesn't put effort into the relationship; and unless you prove to him that you've changed (and it will probably be a slow process, not happening overnight) and that you will be a loyal and loving girlfriend, he probably won't consider taking you back thinking that all the pain you've put him through is just going to repeat itself.

Honestly, cheating would be the point where I would brake up with any girl; and I would consider any guy who takes a girl back after cheating on him as naive :/ though it all depends on the situation of course.

No, you're absolutely right, I'm not offended at all. I've come to terms with that myself and I addressed that when I tried to talk to him last night with unfortunately no avail. He said it himself that there is some potential for something to happen in the future, I'm just not sure how to make him open up again at this point. I know I can make it up to him and make things workout, and I'm willing to put that effort in, again just not sure what to do at this point.

Well, sadly all you can do is wait for him to reply.

Spamming him with messages probably will just frustrate him since he's probably using this time to think about what he really wants out of this relationship; it'll seem like you're trying to pressure him (I've done the same and learned from my mistakes).

I've been a lot of situations where I've had to wait for unknown periods of time for a reply from the person you (love?), and I know that sometimes it can make you feel like you're going crazy if you really care that much about the person. But honestly I can't say what your feelings are for this guy, since it's an online relationship I don't know what it's like. Maybe you should let it cool down and try to talk to him again tomorrow.

EDIT: I'm sorry that your topic is being trolled like this... Feel free to inbox me if you want

It's understandable, I mean a.) it's eoserv, b.) i snuck in a couple of jokes myself. c.) I don't really expect people to think much of someone that cheats in all honesty. Regardless, I appreciate your honesty and your posts alone have made the thread worthwhile.

Rawrkitty posted: (20th Dec 2012, 03:40 am)

Ramy posted: (20th Dec 2012, 03:35 am)

Rawrkitty posted: (20th Dec 2012, 03:29 am)

Ramy posted: (20th Dec 2012, 03:19 am)

Every response you've gotten so far is a troll pretty much... Maybe I'll be able to give you some advice.

(note: all my assumptions are based on what you wrote and are only assumptions)

I'm not trying to offend you or anything, but from your description it seems that you have been putting no effort into keeping a relationship with your online boyfriend until after he broke up with you. I guess that goes with the saying "You don't know what you have 'till it's gone".

You can tell that he cares a lot about you by the way he tries so hard to make you happy while all you do is argue with him.

I've been in my fair-share of relationship problems with a girl who doesn't put effort into the relationship; and unless you prove to him that you've changed (and it will probably be a slow process, not happening overnight) and that you will be a loyal and loving girlfriend, he probably won't consider taking you back thinking that all the pain you've put him through is just going to repeat itself.

Honestly, cheating would be the point where I would brake up with any girl; and I would consider any guy who takes a girl back after cheating on him as naive :/ though it all depends on the situation of course.

No, you're absolutely right, I'm not offended at all. I've come to terms with that myself and I addressed that when I tried to talk to him last night with unfortunately no avail. He said it himself that there is some potential for something to happen in the future, I'm just not sure how to make him open up again at this point. I know I can make it up to him and make things workout, and I'm willing to put that effort in, again just not sure what to do at this point.

Well, sadly all you can do is wait for him to reply.

Spamming him with messages probably will just frustrate him since he's probably using this time to think about what he really wants out of this relationship; it'll seem like you're trying to pressure him (I've done the same and learned from my mistakes).

I've been a lot of situations where I've had to wait for unknown periods of time for a reply from the person you (love?), and I know that sometimes it can make you feel like you're going crazy if you really care that much about the person. But honestly I can't say what your feelings are for this guy, since it's an online relationship I don't know what it's like. Maybe you should let it cool down and try to talk to him again tomorrow.

EDIT: I'm sorry that your topic is being trolled like this... Feel free to inbox me if you want

It's understandable, I mean a.) it's eoserv, b.) i snuck in a couple of jokes myself. c.) I don't really expect people to think much of someone that cheats in all honesty. Regardless, I appreciate your honesty and your posts alone have made the thread worthwhile.

yo kitty yu a bad bitch. leggo hav sex in da toilet niggu.

God damnit i got cluster fucked by posts >:

Here it is  you stupid spamming trolls:

https://eoserv.net/forum/topic/21484&p=2#post175513

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elevations posted: (20th Dec 2012, 03:43 am)

God damnit i got cluster fucked by posts >:

Here it is  you stupid spamming trolls:

https://eoserv.net/forum/topic/21484&p=2#post175513

aint no trolls here niggu. we gangstaz.

D'relish James posted: (20th Dec 2012, 03:46 am)

elevations posted: (20th Dec 2012, 03:43 am)

God damnit i got cluster fucked by posts >:

Here it is  you stupid spamming trolls:

https://eoserv.net/forum/topic/21484&p=2#post175513

aint no trolls here niggu. we gangstaz.

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my opinion,internet dating is stupid. if your not going to go meet them its pointless, if you do meet them it will probably be for so long. as much as it pains to say long distant relationships ALWAYS end (i had one myself with a guy who lived 2 hours away from me [by car] ) unless there DESTINED to be with one another and prapared to make sacrifices.

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Tails posted: (20th Dec 2012, 03:52 am)

my opinion,internet dating is stupid. if your not going to go meet them its pointless, if you do meet them it will probably be for so long. as much as it pains to say long distant relationships ALWAYS end (i had one myself with a guy who lived 2 hours away from me [by car] ) unless there DESTINED to be with one another and prapared to make sacrifices.

bitch fuck yo opinion! yo puzzy stank!

D'relish James posted: (20th Dec 2012, 03:52 am)

Tails posted: (20th Dec 2012, 03:52 am)

my opinion,internet dating is stupid. if your not going to go meet them its pointless, if you do meet them it will probably be for so long. as much as it pains to say long distant relationships ALWAYS end (i had one myself with a guy who lived 2 hours away from me [by car] ) unless there DESTINED to be with one another and prapared to make sacrifices.

bitch fuck yo opinion! yo puzzy stank!

go die you nobody lol

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Tails posted: (20th Dec 2012, 03:53 am)

D'relish James posted: (20th Dec 2012, 03:52 am)

Tails posted: (20th Dec 2012, 03:52 am)

my opinion,internet dating is stupid. if your not going to go meet them its pointless, if you do meet them it will probably be for so long. as much as it pains to say long distant relationships ALWAYS end (i had one myself with a guy who lived 2 hours away from me [by car] ) unless there DESTINED to be with one another and prapared to make sacrifices.

bitch fuck yo opinion! yo puzzy stank!

go die you nobody lol

ay my bad boo. y yu tryna front? leggo hav sum sex in da toilet..

That relationship is a dead end. Sorry, being realistic. Kill it, it's not worth it.

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Cirras posted: (20th Dec 2012, 03:57 am)

That relationship is a dead end. Sorry, being realistic. Kill it, it's not worth it.

kill it? mayne, yu sum abortion ass niggu.

Elevations had the best answer on here so far. Ramy was right behind. I also agree with tails. Interbreeding dating is stupid unless you're going to meet the person in rl. I met my current girl friend on imvu because she lives in Chicago. I met up with her and took her to see the collection. Best time ever.

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Chief Sosa posted: (20th Dec 2012, 07:06 pm)

Elevations had the best answer on here so far. Ramy was right behind. I also agree with tails. Interbreeding dating is stupid unless you're going to meet the person in rl. I met my current girl friend on imvu because she lives in Chicago. I met up with her and took her to see the collection. Best time ever.

So basically you're a wigger and a loser. I see I see.

It is easy for you all to say that online relationships do not work.....or is it that you have been hurt by them in the past,I know people who have met online and gotten married so dont knock it cause u got fucked up by somebody.

Relationships are always the same whether a great distance or small,You get fucked up sometimes but thats life.

Relating back to the topic....You fucked up so deal with it!