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fruity posted: (20th Dec 2012, 03:15 am)

Reading that made my eyes hurt o.o how long did that take to write up :o?

awhile, it was spaced out before but idk what happened

Every response you've gotten so far is a troll pretty much... Maybe I'll be able to give you some advice.

(note: all my assumptions are based on what you wrote and are only assumptions)

I'm not trying to offend you or anything, but from your description it seems that you have been putting no effort into keeping a relationship with your online boyfriend until after he broke up with you. I guess that goes with the saying "You don't know what you have 'till it's gone".

You can tell that he cares a lot about you by the way he tries so hard to make you happy while all you do is argue with him.

I've been in my fair-share of relationship problems with a girl who doesn't put effort into the relationship; and unless you prove to him that you've changed (and it will probably be a slow process, not happening overnight) and that you will be a loyal and loving girlfriend, he probably won't consider taking you back thinking that all the pain you've put him through is just going to repeat itself.

Honestly, cheating would be the point where I would brake up with any girl; and I would consider any guy who takes a girl back after cheating on him as naive :/ though it all depends on the situation of course.

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Ramy posted: (20th Dec 2012, 03:19 am)

Every response you've gotten so far is a troll pretty much... Maybe I'll be able to give you some advice.

(note: all my assumptions are based on what you wrote and are only assumptions)

I'm not trying to offend you or anything, but from your description it seems that you have been putting no effort into keeping a relationship with your online boyfriend until after he broke up with you. I guess that goes with the saying "You don't know what you have 'till it's gone".

You can tell that he cares a lot about you by the way he tries so hard to make you happy while all you do is argue with him.

I've been in my fair-share of relationship problems with a girl who doesn't put effort into the relationship; and unless you prove to him that you've changed (and it will probably be a slow process, not happening overnight) and that you will be a loyal and loving girlfriend, he probably won't consider taking you back thinking that all the pain you've put him through is just going to repeat itself.

Honestly, cheating would be the point where I would brake up with any girl; and I would consider any guy who takes a girl back after cheating on him as naive :/ though it all depends on the situation of course.

I was not trolling. I gave her a brutally honest answer.

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This is some good copy pasta.

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Plasmastar posted: (20th Dec 2012, 03:21 am)

This is some good copy pasta.

right

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Ramy posted: (20th Dec 2012, 03:19 am)

Every response you've gotten so far is a troll pretty much... Maybe I'll be able to give you some advice.

(note: all my assumptions are based on what you wrote and are only assumptions)

I'm not trying to offend you or anything, but from your description it seems that you have been putting no effort into keeping a relationship with your online boyfriend until after he broke up with you. I guess that goes with the saying "You don't know what you have 'till it's gone".

You can tell that he cares a lot about you by the way he tries so hard to make you happy while all you do is argue with him.

I've been in my fair-share of relationship problems with a girl who doesn't put effort into the relationship; and unless you prove to him that you've changed (and it will probably be a slow process, not happening overnight) and that you will be a loyal and loving girlfriend, he probably won't consider taking you back thinking that all the pain you've put him through is just going to repeat itself.

Honestly, cheating would be the point where I would brake up with any girl; and I would consider any guy who takes a girl back after cheating on him as naive :/ though it all depends on the situation of course.

No, you're absolutely right, I'm not offended at all. I've come to terms with that myself and I addressed that when I tried to talk to him last night with unfortunately no avail. He said it himself that there is some potential for something to happen in the future, I'm just not sure how to make him open up again at this point. I know I can make it up to him and make things workout, and I'm willing to put that effort in, again just not sure what to do at this point.

Plasmastar posted: (20th Dec 2012, 03:21 am)

This is some good copy pasta.

yo niggu i luv pasta. it be all pasta-y and shit you kno liek..
i eat dat shit liek i eat da pussy ahahaha

D'relish James posted: (20th Dec 2012, 03:30 am)

Plasmastar posted: (20th Dec 2012, 03:21 am)

This is some good copy pasta.

yo niggu i luv pasta. it be all pasta-y and shit you kno liek..
i eat dat shit liek i eat da pussy ahahaha

Was eating some pretty good nipples myself, the other night. ;)

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Plasmastar posted: (20th Dec 2012, 03:31 am)

D'relish James posted: (20th Dec 2012, 03:30 am)

Plasmastar posted: (20th Dec 2012, 03:21 am)

This is some good copy pasta.

yo niggu i luv pasta. it be all pasta-y and shit you kno liek..
i eat dat shit liek i eat da pussy ahahaha

Was eating some pretty good nipples myself, the other night. ;)

aha you nasty fam. nipplz aint gud unless yu put mustard yu kno?

Rawrkitty posted: (20th Dec 2012, 03:29 am)

Ramy posted: (20th Dec 2012, 03:19 am)

Every response you've gotten so far is a troll pretty much... Maybe I'll be able to give you some advice.

(note: all my assumptions are based on what you wrote and are only assumptions)

I'm not trying to offend you or anything, but from your description it seems that you have been putting no effort into keeping a relationship with your online boyfriend until after he broke up with you. I guess that goes with the saying "You don't know what you have 'till it's gone".

You can tell that he cares a lot about you by the way he tries so hard to make you happy while all you do is argue with him.

I've been in my fair-share of relationship problems with a girl who doesn't put effort into the relationship; and unless you prove to him that you've changed (and it will probably be a slow process, not happening overnight) and that you will be a loyal and loving girlfriend, he probably won't consider taking you back thinking that all the pain you've put him through is just going to repeat itself.

Honestly, cheating would be the point where I would brake up with any girl; and I would consider any guy who takes a girl back after cheating on him as naive :/ though it all depends on the situation of course.

No, you're absolutely right, I'm not offended at all. I've come to terms with that myself and I addressed that when I tried to talk to him last night with unfortunately no avail. He said it himself that there is some potential for something to happen in the future, I'm just not sure how to make him open up again at this point. I know I can make it up to him and make things workout, and I'm willing to put that effort in, again just not sure what to do at this point.

Well, sadly all you can do is wait for him to reply.

Spamming him with messages probably will just frustrate him since he's probably using this time to think about what he really wants out of this relationship; it'll seem like you're trying to pressure him (I've done the same and learned from my mistakes).

I've been a lot of situations where I've had to wait for unknown periods of time for a reply from the person you (love?), and I know that sometimes it can make you feel like you're going crazy if you really care that much about the person. But honestly I can't say what your feelings are for this guy, since it's an online relationship I don't know what it's like. Maybe you should let it cool down and try to talk to him again tomorrow.

EDIT: I'm sorry that your topic is being trolled like this... Feel free to inbox me if you want

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Ramy posted: (20th Dec 2012, 03:35 am)

Rawrkitty posted: (20th Dec 2012, 03:29 am)

Ramy posted: (20th Dec 2012, 03:19 am)

Every response you've gotten so far is a troll pretty much... Maybe I'll be able to give you some advice.

(note: all my assumptions are based on what you wrote and are only assumptions)

I'm not trying to offend you or anything, but from your description it seems that you have been putting no effort into keeping a relationship with your online boyfriend until after he broke up with you. I guess that goes with the saying "You don't know what you have 'till it's gone".

You can tell that he cares a lot about you by the way he tries so hard to make you happy while all you do is argue with him.

I've been in my fair-share of relationship problems with a girl who doesn't put effort into the relationship; and unless you prove to him that you've changed (and it will probably be a slow process, not happening overnight) and that you will be a loyal and loving girlfriend, he probably won't consider taking you back thinking that all the pain you've put him through is just going to repeat itself.

Honestly, cheating would be the point where I would brake up with any girl; and I would consider any guy who takes a girl back after cheating on him as naive :/ though it all depends on the situation of course.

No, you're absolutely right, I'm not offended at all. I've come to terms with that myself and I addressed that when I tried to talk to him last night with unfortunately no avail. He said it himself that there is some potential for something to happen in the future, I'm just not sure how to make him open up again at this point. I know I can make it up to him and make things workout, and I'm willing to put that effort in, again just not sure what to do at this point.

Well, sadly all you can do is wait for him to reply.

Spamming him with messages probably will just frustrate him since he's probably using this time to think about what he really wants out of this relationship; it'll seem like you're trying to pressure him (I've done the same and learned from my mistakes).

I've been a lot of situations where I've had to wait for unknown periods of time for a reply from the person you (love?), and I know that sometimes it can make you feel like you're going crazy if you really care that much about the person. But honestly I can't say what your feelings are for this guy, since it's an online relationship I don't know what it's like. Maybe you should let it cool down and try to talk to him again tomorrow.

yo ramy shut da fuk up niggu. yo dick little.

Tails posted: (20th Dec 2012, 03:32 am)

right..... cow udders by any chance? :P

Some times I wish I could just drink from the tap. :(

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Haze posted: (20th Dec 2012, 03:05 am)

Rawrkitty posted: (20th Dec 2012, 03:03 am)

Haze posted: (20th Dec 2012, 03:02 am)

Rawrkitty posted: (20th Dec 2012, 03:00 am)

college guy doesn't want to for a long time he says that people in their early 20's nowadays are essentially kids and if theyre kids themselves how can they possibly be a good parent. he wants me to have job aspirations and shit but i only want to be a good wife and mom

1) Apologize. Tell him that you're a grown ass women and you want to be with him regardless.
2) Refer to steps 2 & 3.

but he's black

Kill it. Before it lays eggs.

looooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooool +1 sir

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Obviously this sounds like a copy pasta, but if it's for-real

haze is perhaps right that most online relationships don't work out, i would have to agree with this to an extent.

However, this doesn't mean it couldn't work out, i think you done very wrong for cheating on him and should be ashamed, on the other hand it seems like there wasn't enough for you two to actually have a relationship but that still doesn't constitute for cheating.

Leaving guy you cheated with was perhaps destiny considering your heart belonged to someone else before you decided to cheat with him and now you regret it, whether or not these people tell you otherwise you will still regret it.

You already left the guy you cheated with so you've already made the final decision.

Unless you intend to get back with the guy you cheated with (which will most likely happen) because your a whore, i personally think your a selfish bitch for wanting so much when all you needed was right there all you had to do was have some faith in the relationship.

My advice? Go kill yourself, nah, thats too harsh, so instead i leave you with this:

If this guy who you cheated on is the one you care about then tell him your sorry, tell him the truth how you feel, and if he says no, don't be angry at him, don't hate him, because understand you don't deserve his forgiveness.

And as for the other guy, if you plan to go back with him, make sure to tell him why you ever left, otherwise your just a lieing bitch and is screwing everyone around.

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