Re: I've been used and lied to.
Cykka posted: (3rd Sep 2012, 09:05 pm)
Ramy posted: (3rd Sep 2012, 09:02 pm)
The problem isn't that she had sexual experiance in the past, but we have shared plenty of special moments together where she told me many things that I later realized we lies... That's why I'm upset, because she lied to me for so long and I had to find out about it on my own
Either stop digging or address the issue and leave, change can only be made by you no one else. Our opinions are essentially useless, we are nobodies in your real life...So take the ropes out of our hands and lead your life the way you want it to go.
Careful what ropes are you talking about he might get the wrong idea lulz.
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Cykka
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Re: I've been used and lied to.
elevations posted: (3rd Sep 2012, 09:08 pm)
Cykka posted: (3rd Sep 2012, 09:05 pm)
Ramy posted: (3rd Sep 2012, 09:02 pm)
The problem isn't that she had sexual experiance in the past, but we have shared plenty of special moments together where she told me many things that I later realized we lies... That's why I'm upset, because she lied to me for so long and I had to find out about it on my own
Either stop digging or address the issue and leave, change can only be made by you no one else. Our opinions are essentially useless, we are nobodies in your real life...So take the ropes out of our hands and lead your life the way you want it to go.
Careful what ropes are you talking about he might get the wrong idea lulz.
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heaven
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Re: I've been used and lied to.
Been through this myself. Leave her asap and make your child your first priority, not her (who gives a shit about her. You shouldn't.) Don't listen to people saying to stay and try to make things work because in the end it's gonna effect your child because obviously she isn't
gonna change, and your child will ALWAYS come first. Also most of these people are kids themselves, don't take advice from them.
Do what's best for the kid, not her/you.
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Mattâ„¢
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Re: I've been used and lied to.
Ramy posted: (3rd Sep 2012, 08:42 pm)
After finally being able to talk to her, she has given some explanation.
1. (This is based on what she told me, no proof was given) That CJ guy that she was supposedly cheating on her boyfriend with, actually wasn't her. Someone who knew her password ended up
talking to CJ using her account, and CJ knew about this and was purposely trying to make it look like she was cheating so that her boyfriend would break up with her. (Why they would do this, I don't know) So if this is true, that means that she has
not really had sex (other than the rape) before me.
2. Though all of her other relationships did involve "touching" and one of them oral. And the 3rd boy friend (the one I 1st found out about) Did in fact almost have sex with
her (by almost I mean they had their clothes off, but it just didn't go in), and she was willing, but he wasn't turned on so it didn't happen.
3. (Again, based on what she told me) The 4th "Boyfriend" wasn't really a boyfriend. He was a creeper that wouldn't leave her alone until she said yes, and then after she did
they only lasted a few days. He ended up somehow hacking into her computer cam while she was changing, but that's all that happened.
4. It is true that she has lied to me about her past throughout our entire relationship, and I still assume that she has never cheated on me.
5. Not sure if I mentioned this, but she has given no reply as to the strip games she played over Skype with one of her friends, again assuming that he was just a
friend.
that kinda seems like bs lol
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jimmy
Joined: 22nd Oct 2009
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Re: I've been used and lied to.
Matt⢠posted: (3rd Sep 2012, 09:13 pm)
Ramy posted: (3rd Sep 2012, 08:42 pm)
After finally being able to talk to her, she has given some explanation.
1. (This is based on what she told me, no proof was given) That CJ guy that she was supposedly cheating on her boyfriend with, actually wasn't her. Someone who knew her password ended up
talking to CJ using her account, and CJ knew about this and was purposely trying to make it look like she was cheating so that her boyfriend would break up with her. (Why they would do this, I don't know) So if this is true, that means that she has
not really had sex (other than the rape) before me.
2. Though all of her other relationships did involve "touching" and one of them oral. And the 3rd boy friend (the one I 1st found out about) Did in fact almost have sex with
her (by almost I mean they had their clothes off, but it just didn't go in), and she was willing, but he wasn't turned on so it didn't happen.
3. (Again, based on what she told me) The 4th "Boyfriend" wasn't really a boyfriend. He was a creeper that wouldn't leave her alone until she said yes, and then after she did
they only lasted a few days. He ended up somehow hacking into her computer cam while she was changing, but that's all that happened.
4. It is true that she has lied to me about her past throughout our entire relationship, and I still assume that she has never cheated on me.
5. Not sure if I mentioned this, but she has given no reply as to the strip games she played over Skype with one of her friends, again assuming that he was just a
friend.
that kinda seems like bs lol
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Pasta
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Re: I've been used and lied to.
nothing to do here---
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Ramy
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Re: I've been used and lied to.
Pasta posted: (3rd Sep 2012, 09:42 pm)
nothing to do here
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Kesttang
Joined: 18th Oct 2011
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Re: I've been used and lied to.
Yeah, you gotta think about the kid. It looks like the mom is too immature for a real relationship. I don't mean by leaving her or anything like that but I think it would be the best to raise your kid by
yourself. I know it's difficult to be a single parent. I assume you're still going to school, right? Well, it's your decision. Make the best choice for the kid. :] Good luck Ramy.
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Saber
Joined: 22nd Feb 2012
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Re: I've been used and lied to.
As I burst into laughter from this thread I'll give you some good advice, don't be so naive. What was that your first girl ever? SMH man.
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Misca
Joined: 10th May 2011
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Re: I've been used and lied to.
Saber posted: (4th Sep 2012, 02:14 am)
As I burst into laughter from this thread I'll give you some good advice, don't be so naive. What was that your first girl ever? SMH man.
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Saber
Joined: 22nd Feb 2012
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Re: I've been used and lied to.
Misca posted: (4th Sep 2012, 02:19 am)
Saber posted: (4th Sep 2012, 02:14 am)
As I burst into laughter from this thread I'll give you some good advice, don't be so naive. What was that your first girl ever? SMH man.
As I burst into laughter from your post I'll give you some good advice, leave this forum. What was this your first forum ever? SHM man.
LOL so what are you some sort of authority figure now telling me to leave? LOL am I intruding into your life these forums? Sad, comment wasn't even aimed at you but I guess I made it too generic seeing as it could apply to any of you losers. Sorry if your feelings got hurt, oh here's your purse
too.
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Pasta
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Re: I've been used and lied to.
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Moonie
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Re: I've been used and lied to.
im sorry but your girlfriend is a whore. i had lost my virginity to my current bf of 2 years and im 18... shes 19 and shes had more sex than...well a whore o.o
shes not to be trusted shes hiding alot of things from u clearly and who knows how much else there is...
She wasnt raped, half the girls who say they have ben werent really, its what we say when we fuck then regret it.
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jimmy
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Re: I've been used and lied to.
Moonie posted: (4th Sep 2012, 08:28 pm)
im sorry but your girlfriend is a whore. i had lost my virginity to my current bf of 2 years and im 18... shes 19 and shes had more sex than...well a whore o.o
shes not to be trusted shes hiding alot of things from u clearly and who knows how much else there is...
She wasnt raped, half the girls who say they have ben werent really, its what we say when we fuck then regret it.
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