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Post #163065 Re: I've been used and lied to.
jimmy posted: (3rd Sep 2012, 06:21 pm)

Chow posted: (3rd Sep 2012, 06:06 pm)

Thanks for the -2's assholes :] I hate you all </3.


You made me waste a -1 just too bug you, come on man

I -'d all his post... just because I'm a dick... and I love whores. 
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Post #163067 Re: I've been used and lied to.
Palmolein posted: (3rd Sep 2012, 05:27 pm)

Honestly, I suggest you guys stop flaming his girlfriend. If I'm not mistaken, he still is in love with her. I say this because I think he's starting to get offended or embarrassed. So lay off.

Anyways, Ramy.

I highly suggest you two get counseling for the well being of your relationship as well as your child.


I seriously didn't mean to offend anybody, so I'm really sorry if I did. I did say that I was only "judging by what he had said". 
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Post #163068 Re: I've been used and lied to.

I am not sensing a lot of compassion from this thread.

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Post #163069 Re: I've been used and lied to.

Come on guys, respect the fact that he's sharing personal information about his life and asking us for advice to a bunch of strangers. Must people act like trolls on every single lounge topics it's getting old. The topic was good until some people... you know who you are ruined it. 

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Post #163070 Re: I've been used and lied to.
Palmolein posted: (3rd Sep 2012, 05:27 pm)

Honestly, I suggest you guys stop flaming his girlfriend. If I'm not mistaken, he still is in love with her. I say this because I think he's starting to get offended or embarrassed. So lay off.

Anyways, Ramy.

I highly suggest you two get counseling for the well being of your relationship as well as your child.


People have a right to express their own opinions, no matter how harsh or lightly the poster has taken it, after-all he did post something personal on a public forum, so surely no-one here is in the wrong for expressing their own opinions on the matter.
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Post #163083 Re: I've been used and lied to.

"She said that what they did was cheating"

That would be enough for me to be gone.

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Post #163084 Re: I've been used and lied to.

Nerva, not much has been posted that isn't acceptable... I mean the rape jokes haven't started in yet... 

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Post #163085 Re: I've been used and lied to.

After finally being able to talk to her, she has given some explanation.

1. (This is based on what she told me, no proof was given) That CJ guy that she was supposedly cheating on her boyfriend with, actually wasn't her. Someone who knew her password ended up talking to CJ using her account, and CJ knew about this and was purposely trying to make it look like she was cheating so that her boyfriend would break up with her. (Why they would do this, I don't know) So if this is true, that means that she has not really had sex (other than the rape) before me.

2. Though all of her other relationships did involve "touching" and one of them oral. And the 3rd boy friend (the one I 1st found out about) Did in fact almost have sex with her (by almost I mean they had their clothes off, but it just didn't go in), and she was willing, but he wasn't turned on so it didn't happen.

3. (Again, based on what she told me) The 4th "Boyfriend" wasn't really a boyfriend. He was a creeper that wouldn't leave her alone until she said yes, and then after she did they only lasted a few days. He ended up somehow hacking into her computer cam while she was changing, but that's all that happened.

4. It is true that she has lied to me about her past throughout our entire relationship, and I still assume that she has never cheated on me.

5. Not sure if I mentioned this, but she has given no reply as to the strip games she played over Skype with one of her friends, again assuming that he was just a friend.

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Post #163086 Re: I've been used and lied to.
Mattâ„¢ posted: (3rd Sep 2012, 08:21 pm)

"She said that what they did was cheating"

That would be enough for me to be gone.


But in a sense this could be a bad thing to jump straight out the relationship as they have a child together and if he just stands up and leaves she could make his life hard by not letting him see the child and making him go through court just to see his child weekly.

All i can say is have a long chat and both of you discuss options even if it means a temporary break from each other, If my girlfriend cheated on me i'd leave straight away but as you have a child think hard about what your next action is.
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Post #163087 Re: I've been used and lied to.

kidnap your kid then shoot that bitch.......
she's a cheap liar.

btw you should do a DNA test or something to know if the kid is yours .........

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Post #163088 Re: I've been used and lied to.

Can I just make it clear, it truly doesn't matter if she had sex before you... or if she has done "other things" before you... What really matters is the future, and from everything that you keep saying it seems your the one stuck in the past and might have some insecurity's about the relationship because of her past experiences... maybe she lied to you because she knew you where a sensy? 


Also this song reminds me of you my friend.. Give it a honest listen... 
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BbMgh59qpWg&playnext=1&list=PL27B12342D6EA6171&feature=results_video

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12 years, 17 weeks ago
Post #163089 Re: I've been used and lied to.

A relationship is built on trust. If you can't trust her, then don't be with her. Trust me on this one. I'm paranoid too, but it's got me to reveal some of my girlfriends antics and I've stopped those. This situation however is much worse than mine. You just need to end it with her. You'll end up hurting yourself even more if you keep going with her.

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Post #163090 Re: I've been used and lied to.

The problem isn't that she had sexual experiance in the past, but we have shared plenty of special moments together where she told me many things that I later realized we lies... That's why I'm upset, because she lied to me for so long and I had to find out about it on my own

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Post #163091 Re: I've been used and lied to.
Ramy posted: (3rd Sep 2012, 09:02 pm)

The problem isn't that she had sexual experiance in the past, but we have shared plenty of special moments together where she told me many things that I later realized we lies... That's why I'm upset, because she lied to me for so long and I had to find out about it on my own


Either stop digging or address the issue and leave, change can only be made by you no one else. Our opinions are essentially useless, we are nobodies in your real life...So take the ropes out of our hands and lead your life the way you want it to go.  
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Post #163092 Re: I've been used and lied to.
Ramy posted: (3rd Sep 2012, 09:02 pm)

The problem isn't that she had sexual experiance in the past, but we have shared plenty of special moments together where she told me many things that I later realized we lies... That's why I'm upset, because she lied to me for so long and I had to find out about it on my own


Did you tell her that? Do what many have suggested, end it. You may love her, but if she has lied to you and done all these things, I think it's time to go.
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