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I would say drop her before you get hurt even more, but still be involved in your daughters life. I'm assuming you're a teenager.. although I can't generalize your love for this girl by age. Most teenagers are always "in love" but it requires much more than just the feeling; sacrifice, dedication, communication, understanding. You shouldn't worry about her so much "They're plenty of other fish in the sea" the first cut may be the deepest, but it sets the benchmark for later relationships. 

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The worst bit about this situation is you both have a child. Now i dont want to sound a dick or put bad thoughts into your head but are you 100% sure the child is yours? If i had a girlfriend who did this serious thoughts would be flying in and outta my head!

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Standard posted: (3rd Sep 2012, 03:10 pm)

The worst bit about this situation is you both have a child. Now i dont want to sound a dick or put bad thoughts into your head but are you 100% sure the child is yours? If i had a girlfriend who did this serious thoughts would be flying in and outta my head!

Yes I'm sure it's mine, it looks just like me x_x she even has the huge hands & feet I got :P

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Well thats good didnt want you to end up in a very awkward situation. Best thing is a good sit down and chat and then make a choice

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Nerva posted: (3rd Sep 2012, 02:40 pm)

I would say drop her before you get hurt even more, but still be involved in your daughters life. I'm assuming you're a teenager.. although I can't generalize your love for this girl by age. Most teenagers are always "in love" but it requires much more than just the feeling; sacrifice, dedication, communication, understanding. You shouldn't worry about her so much "They're plenty of other fish in the sea" the first cut may be the deepest, but it sets the benchmark for later relationships. 

I agree, you have to put your daughter first. I grew up with my parents constantly fighting, and I was always the one to pick up the pieces afterwards... Anyways, I'm not going into too much detail because I'd rather not have everybody here know about my past, but I speak from personal experience when I say don't just stay together because you feel it's "right" for your daughter. It'll just end up in a big mess, and dragging your child's life into it isn't fair. 

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Standard posted: (3rd Sep 2012, 03:15 pm)

Well thats good didnt want you to end up in a very awkward situation. Best thing is a good sit down and chat and then make a choice

I agree :x

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While some of these replies are somewhat respectable, you should not really seek advice from an online community of any sorts. You will get mixed opinions, and nobody here can say they are professional counsellors. Which obviously you should seek one if you're unsure what to do about this. 

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Elaya posted: (3rd Sep 2012, 03:57 pm)

Nerva posted: (3rd Sep 2012, 02:40 pm)

I would say drop her before you get hurt even more, but still be involved in your daughters life. I'm assuming you're a teenager.. although I can't generalize your love for this girl by age. Most teenagers are always "in love" but it requires much more than just the feeling; sacrifice, dedication, communication, understanding. You shouldn't worry about her so much "They're plenty of other fish in the sea" the first cut may be the deepest, but it sets the benchmark for later relationships. 

I agree, you have to put your daughter first. I grew up with my parents constantly fighting, and I was always the one to pick up the pieces afterwards... Anyways, I'm not going into too much detail because I'd rather not have everybody here know about my past, but I speak from personal experience when I say don't just stay together because you feel it's "right" for your daughter. It'll just end up in a big mess, and dragging your child's life into it isn't fair. 

Judging by what you've said so far, your girlfriend sounds like a total whore. You'd probably be better off without her, but it's your choice. I don't know how old you are, but, in all honesty, you should've waited longer before having a child. She doesn't sound responsible enough to be a mother.

I agree with both of them.. Also don't let this paranoia build up or you will regret it.. It will effect you in ways you couldn't imagine in other relationships. 

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I feel bad for your child. His/Her's mother is a whore.

Honestly, I suggest you guys stop flaming his girlfriend. If I'm not mistaken, he still is in love with her. I say this because I think he's starting to get offended or embarrassed. So lay off.

Anyways, Ramy.

I highly suggest you two get counseling for the well being of your relationship as well as your child.

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Why the fuck u lyin'?

Thanks for the -2's assholes :] I hate you all </3.

Chow posted: (3rd Sep 2012, 06:06 pm)

Thanks for the -2's assholes :] I hate you all </3.

You hate Meh?

dill posted: (3rd Sep 2012, 06:08 pm)

Chow posted: (3rd Sep 2012, 06:06 pm)

Thanks for the -2's assholes :] I hate you all </3.

You hate Meh?

I hate most of you.

Chow posted: (3rd Sep 2012, 06:06 pm)

Thanks for the -2's assholes :] I hate you all </3.

You made me waste a -1 just too bug you, come on man

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Chow posted: (3rd Sep 2012, 06:06 pm)

Thanks for the -2's assholes :] I hate you all </3.

You called his girlfriend a whore. And you're going to complain about negative reps? It's a pretty serious situation. I know you're probably like 13 and don't understand anything, but trust me.

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