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Are her parents able to not allow me inside the hospital if they work there? :|

no way... if they tried id call the local law enforcement

Possibly, Depends if they claim you as a "nuisance" and say you have "unacceptable behaviour"

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"Do not take life too seriously. You will never get out of it alive."

The way I see it is, she is 19. She is an adult. She can do as she wants, that means talking to you. Also, if you were mature enough to conceive a child, then you're mature enough to sort this problem out. Her parents are making a bad decision.

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R o n n i e posted: (18th Jun 2012, 10:47 pm)

they wont be taking you to court thats their little white lie id i read correctly ur girlfriend is 19 and ur 17 and you guys have a kid. then she would end up being charged for rape. so they wouldnt take you to court unless you were 18. There comes a time in life when you need to man up and be thebigger person. and that time is now. go apologize face to face with the parents and try to work things out if that doesnt work at least you tried since i dont know the fullstory thats my advice

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ahh i didnt know that. In the USA, someone under the age of 18 can not have a sexual relationship with someone +18

I live in the USA

well then that settles it, they wont be taking you to court otherwise there daughter will suffer and be marked as a pedophile her whole life

Just let the heat of the situation cool down then swallow your pride and grovel to her parents.

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"Do not take life too seriously. You will never get out of it alive."

*I looked up statutory rape and the age difference for where your at is three years or younger, so that can't be charged against you.

I do not know the full story but here is my feedback based on what I understand.

Unless her parents saw something that you did to their daughter that was illegal the parents can not take you to court. Also if they feel you are a serious threat or disturbance (problem in any way) to them or their daughter they can't get a restraining order against you or charge you for harassment. Even if they can they can't say something that your girlfriend would be on your side with. They also can not stop you from seeing your baby mama because she is 19. She is considered an adult so the choice of her seeing you is up to her, not her parents. If she still lives with her parents they can stop you from going to their house, but if both of you are in front of your neighbor's house they can not do anything but watch is discuss of their child. Your girl friend had your baby so considering you haven't broken any laws, you have as much right to the custody of your child as she does, which will mean you have to have some form of communication with her in order to raise your baby. 

I think her parents were just really upset at what ever happened and made those threats out of anger/to scare you. However I would suck up my dignity and try kissing ass to them so that raising your baby won't be a hassle. I don't like this generations inability to have fathers not taking proper care of their own child so I wish the best to you :) 

It is not up to her parent's regardless of the age, you guys have a baby together and the parents can't do anything about it! They cannot charge you with harassment if your "girlfriend" doesn't agree to it. They can't press charges for her. You have nothing to worry about if your "girlfriend" is on your side and want's to see you. If she doesn't and does want to press charges then your kinda of fucked bro, you need to figure out a solution with lawyers and the judge.

Hollisterâ„¢ posted: (19th Jun 2012, 02:43 am)

It is not up to her parent's regardless of the age, you guys have a baby together and the parents can't do anything about it! They cannot charge you with harassment if your "girlfriend" doesn't agree to it. They can't press charges for her. You have nothing to worry about if your "girlfriend" is on your side and want's to see you. If she doesn't and does want to press charges then yourkinda of fucked bro, you need to figure out a solution with lawyers and the judge.

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It aint the parents baby, you have all the right to go there and see your child. Best way to get through this is being supportive, get a job and finish school. support the mother no matter what her parents say. be the good dad and eventually they might reconsider

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ok first off you had a child with her, it is a fact she isnt going to get over you when u are the father of her newly born baby. Second, she isnt a fucking child she is 19 her parents shouldnt have any controle over her life or what she does.  Contact her and talk to her, im sure u'll get bitched at for alittle bit but in the long run im sure everything will be fine if u apologize to her and claim fault for it, as a new mother the last thing she wants to be dealing with is relationship problems she'll want eveything to go just as smoothly as you do. and furthermore im sure she wants you to be there for your child.

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