Dude. dont just come here and start demanding for someone to make a guide specially for you.
Either your just too lazy to bother your ass looking through only 3 pages of posts which would take about 2 minutes.
OR
Your just very simple in the head. since seose requires pretty much no setup to work.
All you do is extract the file. then open seose.exe and your running.
It doesnt need a MySQL database. the DB is in a file in the folder itself.
To make yourself admin. Make your account. make your character.
then logout and go to the file in the seose folder called "User"
Then go to characters. click into your character.
And search for the line that says Admin="o"
and change it to this. Admin="4"
and there you go. your an admin of your seose server.
Simple.