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This is becoming a very stupid thread. Did you guys know that everyone is different so its pointless saying all of this.

The truth is some people are jerks be it males or females. We can all be as bad as each other. Nothing will change that at all.

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roefl posted: (22nd Sep 2011, 07:51 pm)

tooty123 posted: (22nd Sep 2011, 07:47 pm)

roefl posted: (22nd Sep 2011, 07:46 pm)

tooty123 posted: (22nd Sep 2011, 07:44 pm)

roefl posted: (22nd Sep 2011, 07:31 pm)

Ok let me tell you something.

A typical guys day would be something like.

Waking up early while you grab a cup of coffee and start going to your work.

As example me, I need to go with a bus and stand in the cold for half an hour while almost falling asleep at 6:30.

When a guy is finally at work after an hour we talk about crap we don't care about like politics and news.

We'll be sitting on a chair that so uncomfortable that both our neck and back are hurting while we try to focus our job.

After you managed the first part of your day you go enjoy you way to cold coffee ur getting and a nice sandwhich and get ready again while you nice

colleagues pasted your screen full with those nice yellow notes and you can be taking them all off!

But NO NO, they used superglue so you can be scratching them off while you feel you maigraine starting to act up together with ur pain in your back and neck.

After you got rid of the glue, one hour later you have to work so hard to re-do all the lost time that your temper is not to talk about.

Finally after 8 hours you can go home in your way to warm bus or way to cold one, or drive on the highway while theres a line and have to wait more then an hour

to get home.

When you're home it's either raining or dark and when you walk into your house your wife/girlfriend sit at the table saying "it's about time" and to cover that up how was you day?

AT THAT MOMENT, you do everything to keep your anger inside of yourself and say "it was like always sweetheart" and start to eat.

Why do you think guys always have hurting backs and necks!?

While the typical female day is;

Waking up making coffee while watching the news and doing the laundry.

After you're third coffee break you make your lunch and vaccuum and do the dishes, on tuesday and friday you go to the grocery and talk with your mom all day.

Watch your 23 soaps on tv, and make dinner.

Now tell me why GUYS and being DIFFICULT, guys have problems expressing their feelings or thoughts or some don't even talk about it at all.

Ok I'm not saying this is how it always works but you girls got to understand how guys work too, also guys have to understand girls if they are having it hard.

Try it sometimes ok, Humans are selfish beings.

Edit: @ desmond, Redbull does too so shush :)

ok from that i got

guys:
drive a car or get a bus

sit down at a computer all day etc working and come home and get offended by one word


and ill tell you something that fucks up your whole logic about women, my mum works every week mon-fri at a carehome,

she is 50 yrs of age and she lifts people and dresses them...feeds them, cleans there vom,shit and piss.. shes on her feet 247 she doesnt get a chance to rest ( i been to her workplace so i saw) there are violent residents that have mental illnesses and throw fists at the staff includingmymum..from6 in the morning she comes home at half 9 at night, makes dinner for me and my dad and herself and empys the dishwasher and then on weekends she does the washng and cleans the house.. her husband is not there and all HE does when he comes home is parks his ass on the sofa anddoesntevencuddle my mumor say much to her at all. she does everything for him.

so the brain of a man obviously is naturaly sexist

What I got up from that:
1.You don't listen or can't read.

2.You can't read since I said "Ok I'm not saying this is how it always works"

1. i cba to read ALL that so i scanned it - i have a big problem of my own that is on my mind.

2. i know you said that, but i was just showing you what you wrote is exactly not the case

Go back to ur gun theory then.
I said that guys should do the same to girls too, please read before you reply.
And girls always say we're bad listeners, you know, it wasnt about one word (3 actually) it's about understanding counts for both.
Just was saying what could be on most guys mind and making a point. also that most guys have problems expressing their feelings and that answers this topics question.

i understand your not being sexist or anything its just most guys talk about girls like we are the most stupid species on the planet but yet they cant see there actions..it is very stressfull.. ofc i cant fight for every girl on the planet because some do use there boyfriends for money and give us other girls bad names but if there is one thing males and females have in common, its that we are both assholes from time to time, but mistunderstand one another all the time

Desmond Taylor posted: (22nd Sep 2011, 07:54 pm)

This is becoming a very stupid thread. Did you guys know that everyone is different so its pointless saying all of this.

The truth is some people are jerks be it males or females. We can all be as bad as each other. Nothing will change that at all.

Hm, where is that rate function on your post? Lol.

You wrote down what I was thinking basically. We're all different, and doing our things differently. Can't put every man or woman under one section.

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Ananas posted: (22nd Sep 2011, 08:00 pm)

Desmond Taylor posted: (22nd Sep 2011, 07:54 pm)

This is becoming a very stupid thread. Did you guys know that everyone is different so its pointless saying all of this.

The truth is some people are jerks be it males or females. We can all be as bad as each other. Nothing will change that at all.

Hm, where is that rate function on your post? Lol.

You wrote down what I was thinking basically. We're all different, and doing our things differently. Can't put every man or woman under one section.

Haha, we don't have a rating :P but yep :D

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also..i think moonie just created an account to rage about her boyfriend o.o i aint seen her around these forums at all... o.o i could be wrong meh

about drugs

what to you think about Ritalin or adderall, the ADHD drugs? if you are in school still look around you, 35% of the students are on mind altering drugs. look around you in the rest of your life, about 60% of everyone is on some type of mind altering substance, prescribed by their physician. This is "normal", at least it is now. These are the drugs that are abused the most day to day. Just because a dr prescribed it doesn't mean it isn't dope. IMO there's something evil about drugging children to effect behavior modification. Yet that is legal while something as benign as marijuana is demonized.

@Desmond find me one credible report that says that about pot.

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Beware of your actions, they become your habits. Beware of your habits, they become your character.
Beware of your character, it becomes your destiny.
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The psychoactive effects of Cannabis are known to have a biphasic nature. Primary psychoactive effects include a state of relaxation, and to a lesser degree, euphoria from its main psychoactive compound, tetrahydrocannabinol. Secondary psychoactive effects, such as a facility for philosophical thinking; introspection and metacognition have been reported amongst cases of anxiety and paranoia.^[83] Finally, the tertiary psychoactive effects of the drug cannabis, can include an increase in heart rate and hunger, believed to be caused by 11-Hydroxy-THC, a psychoactive metabolite of THC produced in the liver.

Taken from the wiki. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cannabis

I myself suffer from it because of smoking around £25 worth a day. Yes it can be used as a pain killer and there are other good uses but that is controlled blends and not just junk you buy on the streets. It kills brain cells and it is that what causes the paranoia.

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Guys are difficult because they don't like to talk about their emotions girls do -.-

Guys will sometimes talk about their emotions tho.

Sometimes they won't talk at all because they problerly saw their girl with a different dude or flirting or when he sees that shes talking to a dude he assumes she cheating -.-

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eternity posted: (22nd Sep 2011, 08:47 pm)

Guys are difficult because they don't like to talk about their emotions girls do -.-

Guys will sometimes talk about their emotions tho.

Sometimes they won't talk at all because they problerly saw their girl with a different dude or flirting or when he sees that shes talking to a dude he assumes she cheating -.-

That would be a paranoid man XD. My partner speaks to her ex's its not like she's going to sleep with them. I speak to my ex's, don't mean I will cheat either. Relationships require trust. If you cannot trust them then don't be with them.

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Desmond Taylor posted: (22nd Sep 2011, 08:49 pm)

eternity posted: (22nd Sep 2011, 08:47 pm)

Guys are difficult because they don't like to talk about their emotions girls do -.-

Guys will sometimes talk about their emotions tho.

Sometimes they won't talk at all because they problerly saw their girl with a different dude or flirting or when he sees that shes talking to a dude he assumes she cheating -.-

That would be a paranoid man XD. My partner speaks to her ex's its not like she's going to sleep with them. I speak to my ex's, don't mean I will cheat either.Relationships require trust. If you cannot trust them then don't be with them.

I also had a similiar problem about trust about two weeks ago.
I just told her this directly
"if you wont trust me then this is the end."

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eternity posted: (22nd Sep 2011, 08:51 pm)

Desmond Taylor posted: (22nd Sep 2011, 08:49 pm)

eternity posted: (22nd Sep 2011, 08:47 pm)

Guys are difficult because they don't like to talk about their emotions girls do -.-

Guys will sometimes talk about their emotions tho.

Sometimes they won't talk at all because they problerly saw their girl with a different dude or flirting or when he sees that shes talking to a dude he assumes she cheating -.-

That would be a paranoid man XD. My partner speaks to her ex's its not like she's going to sleep with them. I speak to my ex's, don't mean I will cheateither.Relationships require trust. If you cannot trust them then don't be with them.

I also had a similiar problem about trust about two weeks ago.
I just told her this directly
"if you wont trust me then this is the end."

I find it hard to believe that you actually talked to a girl...two weeks ago....like you were dating.

Ayamee posted: (22nd Sep 2011, 08:55 pm)

eternity posted: (22nd Sep 2011, 08:51 pm)

Desmond Taylor posted: (22nd Sep 2011, 08:49 pm)

eternity posted: (22nd Sep 2011, 08:47 pm)

Guys are difficult because they don't like to talk about their emotions girls do -.-

Guys will sometimes talk about their emotions tho.

Sometimes they won't talk at all because they problerly saw their girl with a different dude or flirting or when he sees that shes talking to a dude he assumes she cheating -.-

That would be a paranoid man XD. My partner speaks to her ex's its not like she's going to sleep with them. I speak to my ex's, don't mean I willcheateither.Relationships require trust. If you cannot trust them then don't be with them.

I also had a similiar problem about trust about two weeks ago.
I just told her this directly
"if you wont trust me then this is the end."

I find it hard to believe that you actually talked to a girl...two weeks ago....like youwere dating.

Ur an ass =/ and yes I go a gf -.-

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So you should. I know from experience that a non trust relationship does not work. I wasn't allowed to go out anywhere without her tagging along and I couldn't go see my female friends that I used to work with. I trusted her but she didn't me. I tried to make it work but when she started moaning about me workingI just said that we cannot be together if you cannot trust me. I need to work and I am entitled to do so. I wasn't just going to sit at home all day and no chance in hell was I going to be followed around all the time. I am now 27 years old and shit, if I was still with her nowI wouldn't have even been on here without being accused for flirting.

Me when I was working :D http://files.desmondtaylor.co.uk/pictures/working_days.JPG

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Desmond Taylor posted: (22nd Sep 2011, 08:57 pm)

So you should. I know from experience that a non trust relationship does not work. I wasn't allowed to go out anywhere without her tagging along and I couldn't go see my female friends that I used to work with. I trusted her but she didn't me. I tried to make it work but when she started moaning about meworkingI just said that we cannot be together if you cannot trust me. I need to work and I am entitled to do so. I wasn't just going to sit at home all day and no chance in hell was I going to be followed around all the time. I am now 27 years old and shit, if I was still with hernowI wouldn't have even been on here without being accused for flirting.

Me when I was working :D http://files.desmondtaylor.co.uk/pictures/working_days.JPG

I know what you mean. =/
Woman are blaming most of their mistakes on men now.
Also my gf won't talk 2 me anymore so I think she might dump me -.-

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Desmond Taylor posted: (22nd Sep 2011, 08:57 pm)

So you should. I know from experience that a non trust relationship does not work. I wasn't allowed to go out anywhere without her tagging along and I couldn't go see my female friends that I used to work with. I trusted her but she didn't me. I tried to make it work but when she started moaning about meworkingIjust said that we cannot be together if you cannot trust me. I need to work and I am entitled to do so. I wasn't just going to sit at home all day and no chance in hell was I going to be followed around all the time. I am now 27 years old and shit, if I was still withhernowI wouldn't have even been on here without being accused for flirting.

Me when I was working :D http://files.desmondtaylor.co.uk/pictures/working_days.JPG

WOW your gf has nothing to worry about anyway..there all ugly no offense o.o and awww you are adorable desmond xD you look so happy ;)