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what are the main signs a guy or girl use when they dont want a longterm relationship?

(answeres can include mind games or denail etc)

if your wondering why i asked this (im bored) - also it might be usefull ^^

my answere would beeee... hmm i dont give off any signs (dont flirt or major eye contact) =o and if they dont understand that i act like i have other things on my mind, if that doesnt work it has to be spit out lol

i'd just say it if i were a guy

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Queen posted: (17th Sep 2011, 07:25 pm)

i'd just say it if i were a guy

aint you a girl o.o well fair enough ill change it to girls too (sorry girls)

I'd say just bring up the subject and watch how the guy reacts.  If he's reluctant to talk about it, or just changes the subject altogether, it's a sure-bet sign that he's not thinking about it at the moment.  Doesn't mean it can't change over time, but at that exact moment, he doesn't want to commit to anything.  If you happen to get into a somewhat meaningful discussion on the subject, even if it's "theoretical", it means he's considered it, or at least isn't opposed to it, and just needs to decide if he's ready to fully commit.

As for me, I tend to break it off if I don't see the relationship going long-term.  All I've ever wanted - and will ever want - is a long-term relationship.

im intersetted in anything =/

Im a lover lovers gonna love. =3

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Plasmastar posted: (17th Sep 2011, 08:25 pm)

Run like mad.

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I barely talk, therefore girls never take the time to even start a conversation with me.

Also, people that are not willing to have a longterm relationship, yet willing to have someone, sounds stupid to me.

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Ananas posted: (21st Sep 2011, 07:42 pm)

I barely talk, therefore girls never take the time to even start a conversation with me.

Also, not willing to have a longterm relationship, yet willing to have someone, sounds stupid to me.

thought u had someone lol?

tooty123 posted: (21st Sep 2011, 07:44 pm)

Ananas posted: (21st Sep 2011, 07:42 pm)

I barely talk, therefore girls never take the time to even start a conversation with me.

Also, not willing to have a longterm relationship, yet willing to have someone, sounds stupid to me.

thought u had someone lol?

Aren't things alot easier online?

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Ananas posted: (21st Sep 2011, 07:42 pm)

I barely talk, therefore girls never take the time to even start a conversation with me.

Also, not willing to have a longterm relationship, yet willing to have someone, sounds stupid to me.

I'm the same way, but where i live girls usually start the conversation anyways, and agree with the second part.

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Ananas posted: (21st Sep 2011, 07:45 pm)

tooty123 posted: (21st Sep 2011, 07:44 pm)

Ananas posted: (21st Sep 2011, 07:42 pm)

I barely talk, therefore girls never take the time to even start a conversation with me.

Also, not willing to have a longterm relationship, yet willing to have someone, sounds stupid to me.

thought u had someone lol?

Aren't things alot easier online?

you sounded seriouse to me. most people online are lyers or fake =o

tooty123 posted: (21st Sep 2011, 07:49 pm)

Ananas posted: (21st Sep 2011, 07:45 pm)

tooty123 posted: (21st Sep 2011, 07:44 pm)

Ananas posted: (21st Sep 2011, 07:42 pm)

I barely talk, therefore girls never take the time to even start a conversation with me.

Also, not willing to have a longterm relationship, yet willing to have someone, sounds stupid to me.

thought u had someone lol?

Aren't things alot easier online?

you sounded seriouse to me. most people online are lyers or fake =o

Sound serious to you? In which way? I'm serious pretty much all the time. If it isn't sarcastic intended :P

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Ananas posted: (21st Sep 2011, 07:50 pm)

tooty123 posted: (21st Sep 2011, 07:49 pm)

Ananas posted: (21st Sep 2011, 07:45 pm)

tooty123 posted: (21st Sep 2011, 07:44 pm)

Ananas posted: (21st Sep 2011, 07:42 pm)

I barely talk, therefore girls never take the time to even start a conversation with me.

Also, not willing to have a longterm relationship, yet willing to have someone, sounds stupid to me.

thought u had someone lol?

Aren't things alot easier online?

you sounded seriouse to me. most people online are lyers or fake =o

Sound serious to you? In which way? I'm serious pretty much all the time. If it isn't sarcastic intended :P

seriouse in the fact when you talked about your gf you seemed over the moon, clearly something has gone wrong now your at the stage of hating love and defying all women.. or most .. lol that how it ends up from my exeriance anyway xD


EDIT: but its fine i have met some complete nobass lying guys online, id say meeting someone on the internet is worse than real life because they pretend to be someone there not so your not disapointed..but when you finally meet them it sums up into they are complete idiots who take every relatonship and use it like a computer game xD

i just say its not working out get over it have a nice day it just makes you look weak if you hide it

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