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tooty123 posted: (4th Sep 2011, 04:45 pm)

this may offend you, but unfortunatly i am a very honest person..

mens deffenition of bad boy is being a complete dick to a woman (thats not the case at all) - so they be one and think girls like it ..(when infact its an asshole women dont like)

and sblord you seem more of a workaholic than a relationshp type of guy, and you want women to complement you to make you feel better and reasured, unfortunatly you know nothing untill your in love, and in a relationship. you cant expect girls to fall for you or get feelings for youandJUSThavethemcompliment you and then have nothing to do with them its unfair. unfortunatly you seem to have a big ego, a big plan too far than your eyes can see. for me that is a big no to dating you  (in otherwords this puts some girls off) xD

sure you have hopes and dreams but dont be ignorant to everything else life has to offer :) but goodluck with your big plan because i sure dont have one xD

my plan.. being in love and getting rich by being charming ;) and it kinda works considering my bf is going to earn like 25k a year rock on for shopping >=D

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sblord posted: (4th Sep 2011, 05:09 pm)

tooty123 posted: (4th Sep 2011, 04:45 pm)

this may offend you, but unfortunatly i am a very honest person..

mens deffenition of bad boy is being a complete dick to a woman (thats not the case at all) - so they be one and think girls like it ..(when infact its an asshole women dont like)

and sblord you seem more of a workaholic than a relationshp type of guy, and you want women to complement you to make you feel better and reasured, unfortunatly you know nothing untill your in love, and in a relationship. you cant expect girlstofallforyouorgetfeelingsforyouandJUSThavethemcomplimentyou and then have nothing to do with them its unfair. unfortunatly you seem to have a big ego, a big plan too far than your eyes can see. for me that is a big no to dating you  (in otherwords this puts some girls off) xD

sure you have hopes and dreams but dont be ignorant to everything else life has to offer :) but goodluck with your big plan because i sure dont have one xD

my plan.. being in love and getting rich by being charming ;) and it kinda works considering my bf is going to earn like 25k a year rock on for shopping >=D

None taken. However I have to return the comment by stating that there's probably a few details there you misinterpreted.

I'm not a workaholic. I love the relaxing time off spent together with someone as much as everyone else. When I said I have high ambitions, I meant that I intend to think differently and take different choices in life to aim that little bit higher.Tome,itseemslikesomethingsomeonewouldrespect,the want to be a better person, aim higher, achieve more, learn more... but still have more than enough time spent together.

I don't want women to compliment me on my endeavours. That would imply that she (the partner) is in a position where she's pushed to one side in favour of my own personal gain. Not true. Couldn't be further from it. If I want to be happy, she has to be happy too.Iwantmyselftodowell,andIwanther to do well in what she wants to do. If anything i'd be inclined to compliment her, support her decisions, and I wouldn't expect anything in return. The reward of knowing my partner is happy together and happy with her life would be more than enough.

Do I have an ego? Probably. Is it a big one? No, it isn't. There's a difference between having an ego and just wanting to do well. I refuse to let myself have an ego because the second I believe i've succeeded is the second I stop trying.

Finally, and don't take this the wrong way, but your last line sealed the deal. If you want to become rich by being charming, then excellent, take your partner's money and go shopping. That's fine. I don't know if I could be in a relationship where that's the casethough.Myfriendworks9to5toearnhis pay. hiss partner takes it, spends it, tells him what to do with his very small cut of it. They have no intention of getting a house, a car or even setting themselves up to have a good life going forward. She calls all the shots. He wants out of that relationship,andIcan'tsayIblamehim.Even atthis very early stage, she's very happy, but it's apparent that they have no future together.

It's not about being a workaholic, or having an ego, or wanting positive reinforcement. It's about two people, together, being the very best they can be, seeing eye to eye, hand in hand, supporting each other in the journey and having a good time while doing it.Iwanttobesuccessful,butonlyifshecan be successful too. Maybe I am aiming a little high, but I see it as a positive thing, not a negative characteristic.

Now, maybe none of that will make sense. It's already apparent that you and I see things very differently, but I respect that.

if you read my last comment i edited it because i read it wrong, i apologies for that, i seem offensive but i dnt mean to be, i know i should shut my mouth once in a while.

and im not like that guys girlfirend, my boyfriend is a police officer, we hardly see eachother and he doesnt treat me all that well, but when we are good its fantastic. he will earn 25k a year, for him monthly thats 1.5k or a week im unsure, i asked for only 100 or 200, he said thats fine.
i actualy want to do micro ring hair extentions ill get 100pounds for 3hours. 5 clients in one day is 500pounds .. having 5 clients, earning 500pounds a day ill be pretty much set. but my boyfriend doesnt rly support that, as it would be a self employed buisness of my own and i wouldhavetopaytaxandall that pish posh. id rather run my own and earn more than join a salon, im not a pro and to be honest i wudnt earn much at a salon as i would being self employed.

i am very romantic and giving to my boyfriend, i buy him the games he always wants, theres not a single game he wants because he has them all. i only get 50quid from benefits atm(perents take the rest) and i buy dvds for me and him to watch, i buy him gifts and allsorts. i love to give, but ialsolove to recieve.

so im not as spoilt as i sound ^^


p.s i am currently getting a flat/apartment on my own so i have high hopes to have my own beautiful place to go to and chill at, since my perents dont let me do shit all here, and im not even kidding, i stay in my room becuse my dad shouts at me for anything
Last time i went to watch a movie with my mum and dad and i was eating a packet of crisps, and he said do you really have to fucking make all that noise...fucking suck them stop being so ignorant

i mean wtf lol

theres a name for a b/f you only see every once in a while who gives you money

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Redrocco posted: (4th Sep 2011, 05:41 pm)

theres a name for a b/f you only see every once in a while who gives you money

you obviously feel the need to insult or have a dig at me any second something slips up about me, that sir is called being a troll. thats ofc if your trying to be one  :D

but if you notised i said he will be getting payed 25k, and also, i dont think you know what its like working in the police, he has no choice but to work and hardly see me, so theres your answere, a devoted guy with a dream to become a paid officer. he loves his job, and hes workedhardforit, and i have been with him for 2 years, so no im not his slut and hes not my pimp thank u

tooty123 posted: (4th Sep 2011, 05:45 pm)

Redrocco posted: (4th Sep 2011, 05:41 pm)

theres a name for a b/f you only see every once in a while who gives you money

you obviously feel the need to insult or have a dig at me any second something slips up about me, that sir is called being a troll. thats ofc if your trying to be one  :D

but if you notised i said he will be getting payed 25k, and also, i dont think you know what its like working in the police, he has no choice but to work and hardly see me, so theres your answere, a devoted guy with a dream to become a paid officer. he loves his job, and hes workedhardforit,and i have been with him for 2 years, so no im not his slut and hes not my pimp thank u

XDXDXD redrocco >.< ha, this thread got COMPLETELY off topic.

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my thread is ruined

FACT^

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ok then, fact ... i am going to see my boyfriend tomorro and watch a movie i baught called The invasion :D

sblord makes the longest topics/comments ever I don't even bother reading em sometimes

Sorry but this is a fact =/

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Lol, i agree with eternity but i had to if i wanted to understand the conversation

This is a fact

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i agree with u wild

thats a fact

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eternity posted: (4th Sep 2011, 10:48 pm)

sblord makes the longest topics/comments ever I don't even bother reading em sometimes

Sorry but this is a fact =/

Aww, are my replies too hard to read? Poor cupcake. :<

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I agree with Sblord thats a fact

sblord posted: (4th Sep 2011, 11:52 pm)

eternity posted: (4th Sep 2011, 10:48 pm)

sblord makes the longest topics/comments ever I don't even bother reading em sometimes

Sorry but this is a fact =/

Aww, are my replies too hard to read? Poor cupcake. :<

That's exactly the idea. If you're not up for reading a proper reply, then it's not targeted to your audience. Who would ever guess a discussion forum of all places would have things that need to be read once in a while?

I can not and never will write short, quick scan replies. It's impossible to properly convey an idea, theory or complex scenario in just a single paragraph.

Personally, I quite appreciate Sblord's long-winded responses. It shows to me that the internet hasn't lost all of it's humanity, self-dignity, and grammar. I enjoy being able to read something that isn't filled with "Lol, i no rite, u, n00bz," and incessant punctuation/capitalization/grammatical errors. Don't get me wrong though, I'm no grammar nazi, I just like to read something that someone actually tries to make presentable.

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devingg posted: (5th Sep 2011, 12:12 am)

Personally, I quite appreciate Sblord's long-winded responses. It shows to me that the internet hasn't lost all of it's humanity, self-dignity, and grammar. I enjoy being able to read something that isn't filled with "Lol, i no rite, u, n00bz," and incessant punctuation/capitalization/grammaticalerrors. Don't get me wrong though, I'm no grammar nazi, I just like to read something that someone actually tries to make presentable.

I also know that some people say "It's the internet, I don't have to write correctly." Honestly, that is complete trash. Whether it's the internet or not, the way you portray yourself still remains the same. If you want to take as little time and effort into responding, go for it. Gives uswonderful impressions on your character. If you feel like attempting to write a thoughtful response, fantastic. It shows that you have some education.

Tl;dr - Your responses aren't for nothing, Sblord. Keep 'em coming, some of us appreciate them.

Thanks, and that's another random fact. I was a very prolific writer even when I was just 9 years old. I used to get these blank 48 page books (the kind you use for school work) and just write in them from cover to cover. I'd have ones for long stories, ones for ideas, ones for quick notes and things I should follow up later... I no longer do that, I simply don't have time, but I haven't lost the skill.

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sblord posted: (4th Sep 2011, 11:52 pm)

eternity posted: (4th Sep 2011, 10:48 pm)

sblord makes the longest topics/comments ever I don't even bother reading em sometimes

Sorry but this is a fact =/

Aww, are my replies too hard to read? Poor cupcake. :<

That's exactly the idea. If you're not up for reading a proper reply, then it's not targeted to your audience. Who would ever guess a discussion forum of all places would have things that need to be read once in a while?

I can not and never will write short, quick scan replies. It's impossible to properly convey an idea, theory or complex scenario in just a single paragraph.

nerd.......... =/
and I aint a cupcake im a human I eat them =3

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