Asking Bridesmaids too early?
When should you ask your friends if they would like to be bridesmaids?
Im only just recently engaged and I have 3 definites but also one maybe, and I dont want to ask the 3 and make the 4th feel like an add on... I am not planning to get married for another 18 months or so (havent set a date yet but it will likely be in 2013).
I just feel like 18 months is a long time and I dont want to ask right now and regret later!
On the other hand I dont want to leave it too late and have my friends feel like im not going to ask!
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Desmond
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Re: Asking Bridesmaids too early?
I don't know personally but our bridesmaids know who are what and we got engaged last month. We are getting marred in April if that helps :/ ---
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Ananas
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Re: Asking Bridesmaids too early?
2013? Didn't you know? We're all gonna die 21/12/2012.. Ask them now.. before its to late.
Also, I had like the same question! I once bought this bagel, and the expiration date said I could keep it till 2012, so I was thinking, if I would eat it now.. I wouldn't have it later, and maybe later I would be hungry and I would've eaten it already. So I asked one of my friends, they said;
Iwouldn't mind to eat it for you.. so I said ehm.. well thats definatly not going to work. And so I just ate it right away.
EDIT: Also, congrats desmond on your engagement!
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Desmond
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Re: Asking Bridesmaids too early?
You should already have known about it on facebook xD Thanks though :D ---
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Ananas
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Re: Asking Bridesmaids too early?
Desmond Taylor posted: (21st Jul 2011 10:19 am)
You should already have known about it on facebook xD Thanks though :D
I.. don't really read statusses all the time :'[
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Desmond
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Re: Asking Bridesmaids too early?
Ahh, Well never mind aye :D ---
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Redrocco

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Re: Asking Bridesmaids too early?
its a really odd spambot I think
that said, surely 6 to 8 weeks would be enough notice for anyone
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perfect
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Re: Asking Bridesmaids too early?
Redrocco posted: (21st Jul 2011 04:42 pm)
its a really odd spambot I think
that said, surely 6 to 8 weeks would be enough notice for anyone
yeah, its kinda random, and u think the "person" would actually write back once or twice.
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