Forum :: Lounge :: fighting what do u think

Scott posted: (31st Oct 2010 08:10 am)

It sounds like you should find a new school and perhaps a therapist to work out unresolved issues. If you seriously want a GOOD reputation, how about you try being nice and respectful to everyone? You'd be surprised how far that gets you. You're not going to get anywhere in life with theattitudeyou have now.

Edit: You said 'you're a kid and you think with a fist', that sounds like a neanderthal's behavior rather than what a typical adolescence's behavior would resemble.

2. Ok first off i was a straight A student tell 4th grade never got into fights i was not exposed to black people untill we moved to desmoines ever since i was i turned bad &
   started getting into fights im not  being racist her but mostly black people just wanna start shit.. & people @ my school "ARE" in crips bloods &GD's  so.. idk if u think i need a theripist but i would be better off @ my old school its harding  & the kids around being badfucking with every 1 in the school that makes me mad i stand up for me & my friends..

I just think it's funny that we've progressed hundreds or thousands of years already, with almost every living being on this planet having a fighting instinct to survive. We got this far with instincts, so apparently now the entire world must give up it's strongest nature to progress further iswhat you're trying to say? Save it for your imagination where it matters most :)

The world doesn't care for change when it's done well enough so far.

I too believe that fighting should be avoided to an extent, for instance: I'm against chastising children. But that's only because it was done to me extensively for minor reasons. I believe reasoning with someone is the best way to resolve an issue because of my past. That doesn't mean that'sthe answer, it's how I've grown and been forced to learn.

I've also learned that it is necessary to be a strong defender to protect those who have no will to fight for themselves, as it is quite apparent some people just aren't willing to fight. And I don't hold it against them, I just believe that it's near impossible to NOT fight,when it's sewed into our blood. Someone has to do the dirty work.

Even if a kid goes to tell a teacher he's getting beat by other kids, and that teacher contacts parents. Then that kids parents contact the police, and the police step in, what happens is because of the LAW and we certainly didn't obtain laws without fighting.The reason you can actually "ignore & tell someone about it" today is because of people that FOUGHT.

So, in this essence, if the kid who was fighting was doing it to protect a friend, and the enemy in question has learned a lesson or now has reason to stay away or turn his attention elsewhere, I believe the winner is the defender.

edit: you really want something to debate?

When I was little (around 6) I was playing in the front yard, when my older bro (around 9) turned up covered from head to toe in his own blood. The boys he had been playing with had hit him over the head with a rock, over a disagreement in some game they were playing. I was terrified, I thought he was going to die. Seconds after the ambulance had left to rush him into intensive care, I took a large rock from my yard, and stalked the boys. I found them, and immediately found the largest, most intimidating one. When I was close enough, I hit him in the back of the head, hospitalizing him for more than 3 months. No one where we lived ever bullied us again. Debate that.

---
Web developer, currently looking for graphic artists / designers.

the kid i fought was causing problems with me & 5 of my friends where about to beat his ass any way because i have already talked to the school about it did they do anything no? so the only way to make him shut the fuck up was to beat his ass i dont put up with being picked on with

Lol skulled sucks you got grounded :D  and had to shut the serv down :D

yes in fact i did because i got into a fight with a broken hand if i  didnt have broken i wouldnt of it sucks ya... .__.

Never been in a fight in my life, but I can understand skulled's situation. I've went to decent schools, live in a good neighborhood, and have good friends. I do take a bit of crap from my friends, and vice versa, but that's how teenage males usually are in real life. Yes, we might get hurt, but we don't usually fist fight about it. I would get into a fight if I needed too. I'm not talking about self-defense, if I feel anger building up, I will hit the person. You guys might think i'm a jerk, but we certainly don't think veterans are jerks for standing up for our country.

---
http://www.addipop.com

Addison posted: (31st Oct 2010 11:19 pm)

Never been in a fight in my life, but I can understand skulled's situation. I've went to decent schools, live in a good neighborhood, and have good friends. I do take a bit of crap from my friends, and vice versa, but that's how teenage males usually are in real life. Yes, we might get hurt, butwe don't usually fist fight about it. I would get into a fight if I needed too. I'm not talking about self-defense, if I feel anger building up, I will hit the person. You guys might think i'm a jerk, but we certainly don't think veterans are jerks for standing up for our country.

Sorry to contradict you, but veterans 'standing up for the country' is defense. You clearly stated you'll attack if you're angry at someone. I think you might need to revise the way you said it (;

---
Web developer, currently looking for graphic artists / designers.

Yes, I may be angry, but that's because they have said/done something that I don't believe is right. I'm not going to attack a person if i'm having a bad day. I will attack a person if they're excessively making fun of me/bullying me or someone else I care about. Also, my first source of resolving conflicts isn't always attacking. I would be reasonable and ask nicely to stop. Then i'd probably just start fighting if it continues.

---
http://www.addipop.com

Addison is kinda like me in a way... i get angry @ ppl for making fun /bullying me i have already talked to teachers about this.. you guys should read more.. if it continues & they do nothing like addison said i will fight so he stops if the school wants me to stop fucking fighting why dont they do sumthing about this bull shit people keep doing...? hmm i wonder